by Lauren McMinn Clarke, volunteer contributor
It wasn’t a typical Valentine’s Day — for me, or for them…
I had woken up thinking about what to wear on my date with
my husband that evening. They woke up in a strange place with only the clothes
on their backs.
I was on-call that day to volunteer with the DFW Red Cross,
so when I got the text at 8am that I was needed; I sprung into action, grabbing
needed gear and supplies. I was paired up with a senior public affairs
volunteer, Dan Halyburton. Dan and I drove to the site in East Dallas with our
gear, not sure what to expect.
All we knew was that there had been a four-alarm fire in an
apartment building, displacing dozens of families. The Red Cross had arrived during
the night and found shelter for the residents for the evening.
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| The Red Cross responds to about 6 home fires or other local emergencies in North Texas every single day. |
One young resident I spoke with had just moved into the
apartment complex the week before. She was in her bathroom the previous night
and started smelling smoke. When she went into her living room and saw that a
wall was on fire, she ran out of the apartment immediately, taking nothing with
her. She had no family nearby, she was afraid, in shock and exhausted.
Another women approached us asking for help from the Red
Cross. Where could she and her family stay now? She had three young boys, and
she had to get to work, she couldn’t lose her job. She was able to get the boys
out the night before, but what now? She felt helpless, protective and
panicked.
Thankfully, we were able to connect everyone that approached
us that morning with our Red Cross Disaster Services team. The team sprung into
action by arranging services to help them with their recovery.
As a volunteer this Valentine’s Day, I was able to witness
first hand the compassionate power of the American Red Cross during a disaster
situation. That compassion is tangible. During fires specifically, the American
Red Cross provides shelter, clothing and food to affected families, supplying
their most basic needs.
The compassion is also intangible and comes in the form of
quiet listening, or in simple gentle statements such as, “I’m so sorry this has
happened to you.”
It was a privilege to help my Dallas neighbors this past Valentine’s Day with the American Red Cross.
It was a privilege to help my Dallas neighbors this past Valentine’s Day with the American Red Cross.
Red Cross disaster action teams (DAT) take on-call shifts to respond to emergencies in their local community 24/7/365. Here in North Texas, we respond to about 6 home fires or other local disaster a day. We're always looking for great volunteers willing to be on-call a few days a month to join DAT. To join, get started at RedCross.org.


